

With the love occurring gradually, and not exhibiting external signs, how do we know if a love spell is working? The Bad News It's why when I cast my spells I work them in such a way as to build slowly so that the person has time to get used to the idea and accept it. Indeed it would be dangerous to even try if someone experienced such a sudden and shocking shot of emotion without warning they would be quite likely to fear it, and seek to distance themself from it. It's rare for a spell to create a sudden and true love out of the blue like a bolt of lightning. When love is created by a spell, the process is the same. It seems to have happened suddenly, but it's been building for a while. We may not even know that we are falling for them until one day we wake up and discover that we are in love. Similarities, shared interests, physical attraction, a common sense of humor, that sort of thing. We gradually get to know someone and discover things we like about them. Love at first sight may happen, but it's a rarity. The same thing could be said about how we fall in love - in most cases it's gradually, and then suddenly. There's a famous quote from Ernest Hemmingway's The Sun Also Rises: However, all is not lost, as we shall see. The process is opaque, and that only adds to the stress of the situation.

There's no scoreboard counting up 'love points' that you can refer to in the hope of gauging progress. So when a love spell is cast and love begins to blossom, there are no signposts to show the way. It's all inside you, locked away for only you to know about. Most people can's see your affection any more than they can see your thoughts, fears, or your hopes or dreams.

As you walk down the street, most people can't tell by looking at you if you are in love or not (unless, perhaps, the person you love is walking with you). Love, like all emotions, develops internally. That's because of the nature of love spells and the process of creating love. It can be hard to know if the whole thing has hit the buffers, or if everything is proceeding according to plan. There's no set of illuminated signals to indicate what stage the spell has reached or what it is currently doing. The trouble is that love spells don't come with signposts. Of course it is right and natural that you will want to see some kind of sign that progress is being made. You are emotionally, and maybe financially, invested in the outcome. You've bared your soul in the hope that this stranger can fix your relationship and restore happiness to your life. You've shared information that quite possibly even your closest friends and family don't know about you. Whether or not you've paid money to your spell caster, you've put significant trust in them. Is your love spell working? It's a fair question. Throughout it there is likely to be one question at the forefront of your mind: how can I tell if the spell is working? There are a few ways, some of which are easier than others. That waiting period can be a testing time. Real spells take time to manifest because love cannot be rushed, it must be nurtured. Once the spell has been cast, there is a level of commitment that must be maintained. Placing faith in a spell caster to fix your problem takes courage.
